Do she really call just to check on me?

[imissbarcelona]

My ex called me at 5am from a mutual friends phone..... she was the one who dumped me, because I was depressed and having issues with anxiety.... I'm working on my issues and she knows this and is very happy with me for it...... I told her that once I get my shit sorted out I'd hope you'd give this another try. She said she probably would.

The voicemail said, "hey I was just checking to see if you're okay. my phone is broken and it should be back on in a few days...... ummm, what else is new..... I'll call you in a few days."

The past few times I've talked to her she seemed annoyed, but this time it was her sweet voice, the one I remember when she was totally in love with me......

What should I think? and how should I respond? I'd love to have another go, the me she dumped was not who I am. I was just going through a very stressful time in my life.

[Dune]

At 5am, she "checks" on you? My guess is she probably has some residual guilt for leaving you when she could've stuck around and helped you. Could be a lot of possibilities. Questions you should try and get answers to is how she used her mutual friends phone at 5am, and what's she up to at that hour?

I wouldn't think too much of it. If it happened to me, I'd probably feel as though my ex is having a guilt trip or something for leaving me. Alternatively, she is just concerned or maybe she heard some news from a mutual friend about you.

As for your response, just respond as you would any query regarding your life. Tell her you're okay/better. Just try and make it casual. And well, from my past experience and observations, letting a girl know that you really want to get back with her is not a good idea right after everything just ended. Give it some time. Let things settle. Give each other some space, and maybe try it out at a better time when things have simmered down. Right now, she probably isn't open to the idea of resuming the relationship with you.