did not think she was into me, but now confused.

[altec]

ok so today i told this girl that i had feelings for her and i know she did not feel the same, and i would act how i would if i did not tell her, but i could not take it any more and had to tell her.

she said its ok and thanks for telling her

this is where it gets confusing, she had a bad dream, she told me earlier in the night, any way a lil after i told her i had feelings for her she brought it up again,

this is where im guessing she wants me to ask about it, so i did.

she then said it was a bad dream, and told me about it, in the dream was a sexual act, and she may had woken up doing some thing..

what dose this mean? is she letting me in?, or telling some thing close to her to comfort me? or is she trying to tell me some thing???

thanks for reading and the advice

[MerryH]

So you told her, "Hi. I like you. I know you don't like me. That's okay, I won't act any differently. I just had to tell you that."
Then she said, "Okay. Thanks for telling me."

...What? You, like, rejected yourself on her behalf. You didn't even give her the chance to shut you down. Maybe she wouldn't have. Here's how it should have happened:

"Hi. I like you. Want to go out on a date?"
"Yes. I would."

Or:

"Hi. Want to go out on a date?"
"No."
"Heh. Alright. That's cool. Just figured I'd ask. See you tomorrow! "



Anyway, I don't care what she meant by telling you about her dream and neither should you. Just pretend you are confident and ask her out on a date.