Ok i am really confused, what should i do? help please

[heinsbergrelatz]

Ok so i just recently moved to this school around 4months ago. I wasnt looking for anyone in particular, however one day i saw this one girl in my senior grade who i just completely fell for. I was really shy, to talk to her, not only cause she was older than me, but i also couldn't because i heard she had a boyfriend. So i decided to just give up.

But around 2 weeks later after i started to have interest in her, i was in the lobby waiting for my car, and suddenly she was there. I am friends with one guy in my senior grade who is in the same grade as her, he was telling me how she said i was good looking, and had interest in me. She wanted me to come and literally like talk to her. This all happened in the school lobby by the way. After getting all this information from my friend, i was really confused... i mean she has a boyfriend,.. and if i approach her like she wants me to, that might lead to other things and i didn't want that because she was already in a relationship.

So i ignored her for the next 4weeks or so, when suddenly she talks to me on FB, and i was like...... so we started to talk on FB message back and forth, until finally we kept talking and i got her skype. So now we have been having a conversation through skype, for 3 sessions already, we talked about some deep things, interests all those things. I decided to ask her, about her relationship status now, she clearly told me she ended the relationship with her boyfriend. This immediately got me thinking, so she is single now!! i am going to make my move, so i was really anticipating to go to school, when suddenly my friends sent me this picture during their weekend hangout. (BTW MY friends know who she is). The picture was the girl i like with her ex boyfriend!!!! Wait a minute, she like told me she ended it like 2 days ago on skype, and she is hanging out with her ex in a mall??

I dont get it, what is going on, can anyone give me an advice please, because i dont know whether she is telling the truth or i am misunderstanding, ... this is really stopping me from making my move and try and be close with her.

I would appreciate any advice and views thank you

[workingman78]

Ask her out right, if she says it is over between them, then take that answer and make your move. She is a grown person, if you have asked and she gives you a false answer, that is not your fault.

[Dune]

Find out the truth of her relationship status as to whether it is REALLY over or not. They could be just hanging out as friends.. Or not. It's pretty hard to determine that. However, I'd just keep a low profile in the mean time and watch her actions.. What if you're the rebound guy?

[AnnonymousMan]

They are probably still friends brah. But you know, weeks earlier I would of dated her and made her break up with her boyfriend, especially if your friend said she wanted you. Either way, her x is going to be mad at you whether or not you date her when she is single or still with him so screw that guy, may the better guy win. Watch out though because this girl sounds like she might be trying to play you.

Let me teach you a very valueble life lesson alright. A woman will not let go of one branch until she gets a good grip on the next. This girl you are after most likely will stay in a shitty relationship or still stay with that guy until another guy comes along for her to cling to and jump ships. That is the way woman are so they will always have a 'security' net and a sense of security in general.

If you think I am being sexist than bring it on.

[heinsbergrelatz]

Thank you guys for your suggestions and advice. Really appreciate it. Ok umm so yea my friends say also that she might try and play me, bt i dont get she is so nice and friendly and if i think about her trying to play me, its downright confusing. I mean she said she ended it, wow. . Should i just tell her i like her? So what if i suddenly just ignore her? Would she realize what is going on and try and do someting about it? Or do i have to b like you guys say just tell her i like and her and show her some sense of security?