Just want to know

[Val98]

Ok so i sorta know this guy at school, but he isnt my friend. But the weird thing, to me, is tht he is friends with all my friends and ever since we got science together hes been staring at me every time the teacher says my name( and i see it through the corner of my eye) and i just want to know if he likes me? Dont say have y ou asked cuz im a shy person. And also he rarely tlks to me, only to say hi, bye, and ask for help on homework. Plz help

[smackie9]

He might like you and that is why he cant get the courge to talk to you or ask you out. Just make it easier for him and start flirting with him, and YOU go up to him and start talking to him. What really works is to smile, smile at him...when you smile you look inviting and approachable. Try it and see what happens. And stop looking at him at the corner of your eye....look at him for crying out loud, catch him looking at you and smile! Give him a quick wink. Girl if you want action, you have to take action! Just do it!

[Val98]

Ya i know tht but im a really shy person and some of his friends tht r my friends hang out with him all the time so i have no chance of getting to tlk to him cuz his friends are right there so its a bit weird

[smackie9]

Just flirt with him in class and when class is over bump into him, smile, say hi hows it going, then walk away....look back at him, smile, continue on.....girl you have to learn how to play it or you will be stuck alone a lot wondering.

[smackie9]

So OK it sounds like he does like you...so now what are you going to do about it?

[gallie]

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[W3ab1ak91]

Well I'll tell you one thing, guys usually want some kind of hint that the door of opportunity is open. We want a girl to give us that signal that says hey! Talk to me! Otherwise we don't want to look like an idiot and get rejected. If he's constantly looking at you there's a reason... he's checking you out! Know why? Because he is physically attracted to you otherwise you'd be invisible to him. Slip him your number, add him on Facebook and talk, smile, wink, wave, bite your lip... anything that'll catch his attention in a suggestive way for him to make a move is a good thing! Your the girl you have the power to make that guy come crawling to you

[Val98]

Ok I know its been a while. So today and at real rare occasions he would say hi and hold up his hand for a high five and it seems like now he would only talk to me wen I hve chocolate or wen Im with a friend. Another thing I realized is tht the longest time we talked was the first day 7th grade wen we first met. We laughed tht day and after tht he has never talked to me. I still need help cuz he has a girlfriend and I still want to know if he still likes me. I would really appreciate it

[smackie9]

All good things come to those who wait. I know you are anxious to pull him away from his GF but karma might come to bite you in the ass for your greediness. Relax. If he wants you bad enough he will come looking for you after he breaks up with his GF.....don't be the cause of it because they tend to go back to their ex and leave you behind.

[bulrush]

(I just read he has a gf. Time for you to look elsewhere. He's not going to leave her for you.)

First, I'm a guy. Second, I was very shy in high school, so I know how you feel. Third, there are steps for getting to know someone, but it's not a "game" like some people say. Talk to him for a few days, then decide if you want to date him. Then, if he doesn't ask you out, YOU ask HIM out. This is not the 1950s. Girls can ask guys out.

Or you could say "So, when are you going to ask me out on a date?" If he doesn't get that obvious hint, move on. But give him a week to actually think about what you said, as he might not quite believe you. Be aware that if you say this, you come across as being "needy" by making him pay for everything. And you certainly don't want THAT reputation in high school. As guys will run away from needy girls.