Hello, this is my first time on this forum, and I hate to burden people with my problems.

My girlfriend and I have recently come across rough times. She isn't very open with me half the time and I can often not get what she is getting at. Its been 3 years so we've been going a long time.

From what I have got out of her is that she can't deal with our relationship being too grown up. She doesn't want to have to deal with the grown-up problems and etc etc.

I don't see how she can think this.

I admit, I have been working overtime and it has been hard to see her recently due to myself going into very bad debt, but I have gotten myself out of it now and now I have more free time she seems reluctant to want to spend time with me or even put time aside to be with me.

I really don't know where to go from here and its tearing me apart.

Any advice would be of great help

Also, if it is any help, she is 18 and I am 20.


Many many thanks

Justin (juzzthefuzz)