You never get the girl you truly want.
Get the girls you don't want.
Have a dick constanly tellinng you actions.
Most girls at the same age or younger are too immature and don't know what they want.
Dating older girls is seen as weird.
Older girls also set for older men bechause, well... older men want a nice girl too.
This comes down to one point:
Disregard women, aquire currency and get in 40's. Then get a woman.