Is he into me?

[Jenny5757]

He just got divorced a few months ago, has one kid, and just moved into his first house. He tells me all the time that I caught him off guard, he wasn't expecting to find someone that fast, and he makes references to "when we're living together, when our kids..." etc. but I can tell he's not as into me as I am about him yet. He also said that he wants to wait to have sex because he doesn't want to rush things. That's all fine, but then what's with all the future talk?

He also gets worried that some other guy is going to come along in the meantime. I get the feeling he's more afraid of losing me to someone else than to losing me period.

A few months ago I told him that we should cool it for a while to see if he's ready for a relationship. He said he was crazy about me and asked "Do you really want to know how I feel about you?" I said no because I didn't know if I should believe it at that point. He eventually agreed, but he started asking me out on dates immediately after and then we just started dating again. I gave him a chance to get out, so why didn't he take it? I'm not sure what to do at this point? Give him time, end it completely... Any advice you could give would be great. Thanks

[bulrush]

His emotions may be going wildly up and down, so he may have days when he is unsure about dating. But it does sound like he likes you. Just beware you may be the rebound relationship. In the meantime, get to know him, but don't go too fast. Enjoy your time with him.