Your gf has had traumatic experiences in her childhood and recently. Getting an abortion is an emotional trauma that women rarely ever get over. You can ask her to see a doctor, or be more attentive to your needs, based on what I've seen in similar cases, she will never want to have sex, ever again. I'm sorry this is so sad for you, but you might have to find another girlfriend. I would never ask you to settle for no sex, as you would be very unhappy. You need someone sexual in your life, that is normal. This is why you should choose a girlfriend wisely before giving her your heart. You should make sure she doesn't have issues that will affect your relationship in a big way.
You can do your own research about women's sexuality after an abortion. It's a VERY big emotional trauma. It affects women in a big way, just like a miscarriage, and rape.
[url=http://www.nrlc.org/abortion/ASMF/asmf14.html]Abortion: Some Medical Facts[/url]
Researchers on the after-effects of abortion have identified a pattern of psychological problems known as Post-Abortion Syndrome (PAS). Women suffering PAS may experience drug and alcohol abuse, personal relationship disorders,
sexual dysfunction, repeated abortions, communications difficulties, damaged self-esteem, and even attempt suicide. Post-Abortion Syndrome appears to be a type of pattern of denial which may last for five to ten years before emotional difficulties surface.
Last edited by bulrush; 14-11-11 at 09:55 PM.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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