I'm a guy. Never cheated. Even though I was in a bad relationship I never cheated. I have more self-respect than that.
Guys cheat for many reasons.
- They don't get enough sex of the type they are looking for. Maybe he wants to try something new that she doesn't.
- Their gf is crabby or materialistic, demanding, or micromanaging. Or just has a bad personality, and the man is too weak to break up with them, because maybe the sex is good.
- The man has low self-esteem or low morals.
- The man just wants the excitement of cheating
- The man wants variety of partners.
My problem is guys who cheat make ME look bad. If they want multiple partners, they should man up and tell each girl they want to see other girls.
"without sex, love can still last, but lust cannot."
For me I need sex for the love to last. Sex is a way to bond closely with the other person, it's an emotional thing for me.
Last edited by bulrush; 14-11-11 at 10:20 PM.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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