I would appreciate any input/opinions. I am half sad, half happy right now. Also a bit confused.
A couple months ago I had a good date with a guy and he had asked me out again. But before we got that far, my insecurity got the best of me and I got upset with him over something totally silly. I regretted this as time went along, and something kept telling me to give it another shot.
So recently, I sent an apology text and that I would like to hang out again. His reply was that he is moving out of town soon, but he wanted to hang out too. I admit this gave an idea, because I haven't been intimate in 9 months, and figured we could have a fun night together, and that would be it. Through texting, sexual tension was high. We ended up going out that very night instead of waiting (although he suggested we could go out another time as well)
He took me out for a fun night. Kissed me passionately, held my hand, did everything a gentleman should do to make a woman feel good. We gave in the physical tension and he came over. It was a fantastic, romantic, wild time with him all night long. And as we lay in bed, he was stroking my hair, my face, holding my hand, holding me.
On the date, was when I learned he is moving 4 hrs away in just a week for a new job. The next morning he had to leave for the new town in order to secure his new place there. When saying goodbye, he said "see you again sometime?" I said, absolutely. But I'm not sure what he meant by this. Later, I texted him to remind him what an amazing time I had. He replied that he did too, and would "see me again soon".
I didn't expect this at all - but now I can't stop thinking about him and I miss him. I'm sad that he's moving but can't tell him so - or should I? I am not sure if he plans to see me before he goes - I don't want to pressure him to do so, nor do I want to appear like I'm pusuing a long-distance relationship after just one awesome night together. My intentions were certainly not to start falling for him
He has not mentioned his moving away as a barrier to seeing me. Beyond "see you again soon", I cannot tell what he's thinking. I don't want to express feelings that might make him feel pressure, or guilty for moving after this. Should I ask to get his company before moving and talk about it? Or, should I just let things take on its own form and see if a relationship begins despite the 4 hrs of distance? He will likely visit his family and friends here sometimes, and 4 hrs is not that far of a drive to me. Am I crazy for even thinking this way? I'm so happy to find someone I have real feelings for again. But so sad that he's leaving. What do I do!!! Thanks!