Ok, so I've been with this guy for a year and a half in a ldr. We had or ups and downs, but lately we've been getting along well.
He's going to come to stay in his hometown(my town) for 3 months and in the spring we decided to move together to Spain. But not because he said he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, but because we are both looking for jobs there.
So now, out of the blue, he tells me on he phone that he wants to be free in this 3 months period. Not to be with any other girls, he says, but to hang out with his guys and drink and smoke pot and have fun.
'and after 3 months i'll be all yours'. And he said oh, but we can go out for a drink for time to time ( and I think he wouldnt mind the sex, also)... We got into a fight and I told him I dont like this and that I want to spend the holidays with my boyfriend not alone and that if he wants to be with me, he'll be with me these 3 months too.
And I said its over and he said well, if you cant wait for 3 months, its your decision.. He called me a day later but I didnt answer.
What do you think about it? i am really hurt about what happened. He's 25 and I know he likes being with his guys but I never had a problem with thay. He always went out with them 2 days and one day with me or smth like that. Isn't that enough for a guy? We had 2 breaks before, the same reason, but they were only for a week or 2, and I accepted, but I dont want to wait anymore.
Should I answer the phone if he calls me again?
Thank you for your answers.