I would appreciate some other feelings about a scenario I just experienced with my husband that has me feeling very unnerved.
My husband's 60th birthday was this week. We are planning a large party with family, friends and neighbors in 2 weeks and I told him the date in advance so he wouldn't feel hurt or slighted that I didn't do something special for his 60th (he hosted a 50th birthday party for me last summer).
So last night, he tells me that on Friday night, he and an old friend (male) whose birthday was last week are driving to a city 50 miles away so they can celebrate their birthdays together - oh, and they'll be renting a hotel room together and staying over night. He knows there is a big party in 10 days and this same friend will be in attendance. But they want to go away together to another city to celebrate their birthdays - alone - together. And please keep in mind, this isn't a golfing, gambling, Vegas, guys getaway activity ... it's dinner and drinks and an overnight stay. And it struck me as more of the kind of weekend a guy plans with his wife or girlfriend. Or am I over reacting?
Does this strike anyone else as odd or concerning? All feedback appreciated