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    hi every1 im new and in real need of help an advice

    hello ppl my names craig an im new on here, i just signed up !
    but as i said i do need sum help an advice if any1 wud be kind enough to help ??
    well ive just started going to see this girl an ive been speaking to her for a few weeks now ( not ages though)
    we met on a popular dating site not sure if its allowed to mention names ? but i digress lol !.
    obviously i knew i woz attracted to her by looking at her pics and we managed to start chatting with eachother, im sure you know, a few msgs, chatting an that, an we didnt have much contact for a couple or 3 weeks ish ?
    then started messaging again, an she invited me round to her place for a coffee as you do ! so i went not for long as she had to go pick her daughter up from school , but she invited me an i went none the less and , and she then invited me round again to watch a film at her place with her, so ive been tonight in fact and the thing is i really like her but im not sure wot to do about it coz its still really early days yet ?! i think she likes me coz she wudnt have invited me round if not , but i get paranoid !! im in a bit of a pickle an im not sure wot to do an where to take it from here, how do i tell her i like her or do i not tell her yet ????? i think she must know i like her anyway !!An i think she like s me ( I HOPE!!!!!) AAAHHHHHH im in such a mess wot should i do ??? PLS PLS PLS PLS PLS if any1 can help at all i wud apprecate it so much .
    Thaqnk you so very much kind ppl
    P.S. sorry to go on a bit !!!!!

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    You cuddle, enjoy the movie, and say good night? If you're not ready for the next step then don't go there :p

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    Take a deep breath..... everything is ok. Put this stuff out of your brain and enjoy the night, if you both have respect for each other everything will work out.

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    It sounds like your excited about the prospect of potential. it is exciting, and fun, but relax! go with the flow, and see where it takes you. theres no rush! if it is a good match itll just work out, and the time will come to express those feelings! the most important thing is to focus on having fun, making her laugh, and making her feel comfortable. be interested, ask her about herself. be careful not to come on to strong. how do you know if your coming on to strong? if you start getting really excited (or nervous) take a deep breath! laugh it off. casual confidence is attractive. the key to confidence is care and relaxation. take it slow! the biggest mistake people make is rushing things. Just breathe, think positive, and let the chemistry between you flow like a natural process. enjoy every step of the process. and breathe with the process.

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