Hello, So I have been with my fiance for about 4 years and we plan to wed in September but I'm starting to doubt even being together. Lately I find nearly everything she does annoying. She is very messy and when she rarely picks up she sucks at it. Before this wouldnt bother me as much but thinking about living like that forever just kills me. I'm a clean freak, I like to have everything clean and in order. She hates my mom!!!! What can I do? If we break up do I get my ring back??? It was about 10k so I would like to, I financed a car under my name and I regret that everyday, so I feel kinda stuck!!!