dick too small?

[triplikeido]

my boyfriend that i live with, that moved over 400 miles to be with me, said during an argument that ****ing me is like "throwing a toothpick down a hallway". Apparently sex isnt enjoyable for him and thats the real reason it takes him so long to get off. funny thing is hes the first man to ever really give me good orgasms. (out of 15) oh and he knows how many people ive slept with, and uses it as a low ball during an argument frequently. the toothpick is his latest low ball, and his most painful yet. im kinda questioning our relationship...

[vashti]

This is he kind of retarded thing a male says when he is experiencing some degree of erectile dysfunction, usually as a result of spending too much time wanking to porn, desensitizing himself to the feel of a woman.

Just get rid of him. Life is too short to be wasted on idiocy.

[triplikeido]

that actually makes sense. he definitely watches a lot of porn. and im just not sure we have a very healthy relationship... were working to fix it but i cant tell if its getting better or worse....

[MaidenMinx]

is he comparitvely smaller than the other guys you have been with?

[triplikeido]

erage

is he comparitvely smaller than the other guys you have been with?

Thats the thing!!!! Hes not!!! hes about average and average is good! i dont like really big because it hurts, and i have seen much, much smaller. i think he fits in me well.... i usually get off really good and he can go really hard and it feels soo good.... as opposed to when bigger goes hard and it feels like im gonna be ripped in half in which its not even enjoyable.

[MaidenMinx]

Chances are then he's just saying the most hurtful thing he can think of.
That or he makes you so wet it gives the illusion of looseness but that can't possibly be considered a bad thing.

But from the amount you've posted about this, I would suggest telling him. If you aren't convinced that this is a sign of something worse, tell him how bad this has affected you. If he doesn't care maybe that's a sign that everyone is telling the truth when they say he's abusive.

[bulrush]

This is he kind of retarded thing a male says when he is experiencing some degree of erectile dysfunction, usually as a result of spending too much time wanking to porn, desensitizing himself to the feel of a woman.

Just get rid of him. Life is too short to be wasted on idiocy.

As a guy, I have to agree. It seems too much porn is becoming a problem. All things in moderation. The red flag I see here is your bf is immature and unable to deal with problems without lashing out at someone else. There ARE better guys out there you know. But it all depends if you are looking just for good looks, or a good personality. It is very hard to find good looks and a nice guy in the same package. Same goes for women.

Do you think a decent boyfriend would hurt you like that? Sounds like he does it at least semi-frequently.

[vashti]

erage


Thats the thing!!!! Hes not!!! hes about average and average is good! i dont like really big because it hurts, and i have seen much, much smaller. i think he fits in me well.... i usually get off really good and he can go really hard and it feels soo good.... as opposed to when bigger goes hard and it feels like im gonna be ripped in half in which its not even enjoyable.

The good thing about guys that wank to much is that they can keep it up long enough to meet a woman's needs. The bad thing is that they can't meet their own.

[Illusional]

well, this just goes to show you that even small dicks still gets play.

raverboy

[LdFilip]

well...theres one thing/cure i can recommend to your boyfriend...PUNCH IN THE FACE

...i can tell you as a men,that its not your fault...but if you are arguing as often as you said,and when hes such an idiot when he say that to you (he should pray that i wont meet him someday cos i will send him straight to hell) ,then its really about the time to think if hes the one for you.

[valmont]

a toothpick down a hallway makes it sound like he is he is making fun of himself...=\.

can't comment on the remarks he's made towards you...that's a different issue entirely. if your goal is to make him cum...maybe try throwing in a little "baby...slow down" or "give me a second...it hurts"
build up his confidence...we eat that shit up..