You can't encourage him to move on because he is mentally unstable. And he doesn't understand boundaries, I think.
- Ignore all his phone calls, texts and all communication.
- Tell your family and friends NOT to mention him and if he calls your family, your family should say you are not available.
- Get a watch with an alarm or a cheap digital alarm clock. You can get them in any town for $10. Or get one on Ebay.
- And turn off your phone.
- Can't you ignore his phone number on your phone? Most phones can do that.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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