I got married 2 months ago..I got married through a matrimony site. He was all perfect for me. We decided we would never ask the other about pasts.. and would start a fresh life..without any past included. We got married in a hurry, coz he lived overseas. But right after my marriage, i discovered he is exactly the opposite of what he showed me.
I dont trust him at all..
I m a very emotional person,, So i cant take it when he says something thats absurd. To which,, he always says that i m just making excuses to fight with him,,, or everythng that makes me sad is highly negligible thing.. and says i must ignore it.
Now i m kind of a girl who has always led a simple life and have always been loved by my family. I never indulged in anythng bad... I even lost my virginity on our wedding night. He still doesnt seem to love me. He ignores every damn thing i say .. And after any fight, he would say, "Its just because I m not as matured as u r".
Though I m 7 yrs younger to him...
Now the main problem here is that i am unable to ignore his absurd comments n things he does ...
And in the end of the day...it's always me, weeping or in depression, while he can sleep easily.
I want to be this strong, I dont want to feel hurt... I know there is no way I can change him, i really lose my temper talking to him... for his idiotic talks... which sounds like a 15-16 yr old guy..
I dont know if you understand my position.. I just want u to help me fight this feeling of being hurt..I want to be happy..