Things haven't been so great lately in my relationship. It all started a few months ago when I first discovered porn pics on my Bf's phone. I asked why he had them and he said "because I will always look at other women. you'll have to deal with it". well he deleted the images at the time and is again saving images from magazines and porn sites or camera sites to his phone. It makes me uncomfortable despite knowing how guys look at porn or other chicks. I even still check out other guys but I wouldn't make my boyfriend feel bad or like it's his problem if he said it made him feel odd. And that's the thing, every time I say it bothers me he calls me insecure. Is it normal for him to save stuff like that to his phone? I send him sexy pics of myself to him, we see each other a good amount, we have sex very often too, when I said that "why do you have images of other chicks if I send you pics like that of myself?" he said "well your pics are nice but I still like looking at other women." and when I asked if saving it to his phone was something he always did or new he said "I've always looked at porn, but just within the last few months I started saving it to my phone because it's easier than going through a magazine or back on a computer". And I said how I thought it was odd he did that because he NEVER had saved stuff like that on his phone before. He got all defensive with me and said I have a problem and how it shouldn't bother me. But do you think what he's doing is normal behavior? It just seems odd and not right to me that out of nowhere he'd be more into saving it like that and on his phone.
I learned it's not just the porn that bothers me. It's his attitude towards me and how he treats me too. when I bring up how something bothers me he will ALWAYS make it like I have a problem, that I'm insecure, or that "nothing is wrong". He turns it around on me and will get defensive. Then I ultimately feel worse about how I felt or what I attempted to explain.
I don't know what to do.
Also, before it was just images of chicks from magazines. Now he is starting to save images of women from videos online, like from camera sites, like camscamscams I think it's called, the girls are in their underwear and/or are naked. I feel like it's getting worse. And I provide him with sex, sexy lingerie, all of that! And it's not like I am unattractive either. I am 5'4" and 110 pounds. The porn doesn't seem to cut into our sex life. But this is really bother me, along with how he treats me.
What do you guys think?