Should i end things?

[justaguy1986]

Hello,

This is my first time posting here but i wonder if someone could help me, im in somewhat of a dilema.

Im a 24 yr old male Ive been with my partner (20 yr old female) for 3 years now.

She lives with me in a rented house, when we are both not working we are always together.

The only times i go out and see my friends is when she is working 4pm-915pm.

I spend almost all my time with her but we are constantly arguging and has fallen out big time probably 3-4 times this year.

She prefers to stay at home, and doesnt ever see her own friends.

The only people she really sees are my friends when we go out in town drinking or socialising somewhere.

Recently ive been finding it harder and harder to stay with her and im just thinking of ending it and getting my freedom back.

I dont think that i really see my friends that often but whenever i do (even if she is with me) im not spending time with her im just "seeing my friends".

I do think that if she could drive she would go out a little more but we always argue because she says "its always about your friends".

I work shifts so one week im free from 2pm onwards and the other week i work 2pm-10pm and dont go out anywhere.

My worry is that if we ever broke up she has no where to go because she doesnt get on with her mum.

I really dont feel happy sometimes, and i feel trapped.

What do you think?

[smackie9]

Hey it's not your fault she is so dependent on you and has gotten lazy. Don't worry about her, she is a big girl now, she has to learn to take responsibility for herself.....not your problem. Ending this relationship maybe the kick in pants she needs to finding some independence.