I don't know why! Is he not doing it right? Am I too kinky for him? Why can't I orgasm! I'm so confused and my boyfriend is starting to pick up that I'm faking my orgasms. Is there anyway to liven up a pretty intense and kinky sex life? HELP ME
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04-11-11, 07:13 AM #1
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No matter how hard I try he can't make me...
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04-11-11, 07:48 AM #2
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Have you orgasmed with other men before? There could be mechanical or emotional reasons?
Have you tried using sex toys?
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04-11-11, 08:27 AM #3
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What are you missing?
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Is he too fast/polite/soft?
or does he not warm up the oven before he puts his lasagne in itLast edited by MynameisJesus; 04-11-11 at 08:32 AM.
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04-11-11, 09:52 PM #4
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Why do you say "Am I too kinky for him"? What do you want to do that he doesn't do?
How have you told him that you want X?
If it turns you on, why can't he do it?
Do you want to be tied up or what?I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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05-11-11, 09:19 AM #5
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Can you masturbate yourself to an orgasm?
My GF rubs her clit while I penetrate, that's how she does it, needs BOTH or nothing happens.
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06-11-11, 07:36 PM #6
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Most woman cannot achieve orgasm sadly. Some women have to thick of skin over the G spot and it kills the feeling for them. Is your boyfriend large enough for you to feel him inside of you? Can you achieve an orgasm through masturbation? Also try a twenty minute makeout/him playing with you warm up session before sex so you are at least ready. You need to be on top because then you can control how you move and what feels good. If you don't orgasm within like...forty minutes than I would research women and their orgasms more independantly at a library or the internet instead of useing a forum.
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07-11-11, 03:17 AM #7
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Holy crap. Originally Posted by UsedForever
You're faking it, and wondering why he's not trying harder?
What is it you're wanting him to do that he's not doing? Have you TOLD him? Quit playing games, and communicate.
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29-11-11, 05:32 PM #8
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agree...you have to communicate...and if he really sucks so much,there are plenty of guide books and videos over the net...
...dont fake up orgasms anymore..tell him...dont punish yourself...
...and i recommend a long and nice foreplay...and if he done the foreplay right,i can asure you,that you will have an instant orgasm when the action starts...(but for gods sake,dont pretend orgasm...cos he will stick with what he has and he wont try more anymore)
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