Originally Posted by
guywantslove
Thanks for all the comments everyone
Just one further question, I have this collection of old letters and photo's from my previous partners. She has requested that I throw all of these out because I should not hold on to these. From what I understand these are a part of my life too and a history of who I am. I can't see why she should be able to keep all her old stuff from this one person yet I am not allowed to keep my old stuff. This does not seem fair.....afterall he is an ex too.
Did you tell her that ^^^ and if you did, what was her response. If you didn't tell her that ^^^ then why didn't you?
Originally Posted by
aspie guy
To be honest, she sounds kind of selfish.
If she really cared about her ex-boyfriend who died then she wouldn't rush it to be with you so quickly.
Actually, I agree with this^^^ OP: It sounds like you are some kind of rebound that sooths her yearning for her lost lover.
Originally Posted by
whenweawake
my sister is going thru the same thing. its been 7 years and all other bf get jelous. somthing she has to work thru no matter how long it takes
^^^ If ALL her other boyfriends get jealsous and it's been 7 years then perhaps your sister needs some grief counceling/professional help to move on from this. Particularily if ALL her boyfriends are reacting the same way to her actions.
Last edited by Wakeup; 01-12-11 at 12:35 AM.
Reason: to add last quote.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion