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    Dont know what to do ?

    Last month a found a paper at my bf house saying that he has an STD ..which I get check all the time and I am clean .I didn't say anything to him because he didn't know I found it ..so tonite I told him over the phone about the paper and all he did was laugh and said he made that paper up ..should I belive him or say good bye to him

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    aww...tough situation...

    ...life teached me to not believe to anybody and be careful at all costs...so i recommend to dont believe him and do the tests again...cos this is not like to trust him or so...its about your own health and life...so i see this as the only possibility...dont ruin your life cos of trust to a man

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    I been with him for 5 almost 6,years ..we both cheated on each other , He was cheating on me longer which it doesn't matter we both did wrong ..So this year we have been trying to work things out but I keep on finding things on him , he went back to the girl he was cheating on me with and she post a picture on Facebook and thats how I found out again ..He got tested in July that's what the paper said well the date ..just alittle inside of my problem

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    He has ghonnaherpasyphylaids.
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    What is that ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by babysexy View Post
    I been with him for 5 almost 6,years ..we both cheated on each other , He was cheating on me longer which it doesn't matter we both did wrong ..So this year we have been trying to work things out but I keep on finding things on him , he went back to the girl he was cheating on me with and she post a picture on Facebook and thats how I found out again ..He got tested in July that's what the paper said well the date ..just alittle inside of my problem
    and you are still with him? after this?

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    Yeah and its hard for me to let him go ..he knows what to tell me to go back to him ..I am so stuped

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    anything he might tell you wont apologize what he has done...keep that in mind...and you can be sure that what he has done so many times,he will do again...and again...so ask yourself,is it worth of so much pain?

    ...i think no...you deserve much better than he can and will give you.

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    So now he has turn it around on me saying why did I go and snoop around ..its funny that when I do snoop I always find something ..I hate how he makes me feel , he makes me feel like I did everything wrong and I keep on telling him its a two way street ...I am 27 years old I have my.own car and I work and I have no kids ..the girl he was or is missing around with is 24 she just got a job she been in jail , she has a son ..I think I have some stuff going for my self
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    och...you think it would be better to dont know about anything and live in lies?...geez he deserves to be beaten -.-

    sorry to say that,but there really is one thing you did wrong...and the thing is,that you are still with him.

    it absolutely isnt your fault...and dont dare to think that it is...i dont see any reason in staying with him,since he has someone else :/ and to be honest,i dont see it as a relationship anymore,since he has someone else and since he is beahaving like this to you...

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    He's clearly lying to you. You should of confronted him in person. Just saying... maybe it's time for you to re-evaluate who or what you want in your life. There's no possible way to make rubbish like that up dear. Best of luck

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    Quote Originally Posted by babysexy View Post
    ..I am so stuped
    hahaha, this is awesome.

    I have nothinng constructive to add to this, her statement is pretty self-explanatory of the situation. Guys cheats, she goes back, guy cheats again, she just takes it.
    "All is fair in love and war." - Francis Edward Smedley

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    Lord, just get rid of this douchebag already.
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