if you want a more in depth description of the situation as a whole I have another thread "did I get my point across". Ive asked this girl out for dinner this weekend, after a bit of wundering if I got the point across that im asking her out (ser did I get my point across) we were scheaduling it and I say its on me, she asked if I was sure, of course I insisted my policy being first date guy pays, always, after that its a date by date basis. Her asking this has yet again made me question wether I got my point across, is there descussion as to who pays for the girst date?