Originally Posted by
Love'sReject
The reason for the personas is clearly that women don't like men's actual personalities; they live, love and thrive on drama, and those bad boys they like? They love the flawed character: it's the Nightingale Effect in action! So with myself being somewhat balanced in the world outside of the romantic, I am apparently too stable, too nice, too pure and good.
Solution? Become something I'm not? There's evidently no winning with honesty. Candor is too boring, not a challenge that women like
Let's face it: By nature, women are contradictory, and there's no winning based on self-determinism. For example, women constantly complain about how guys act differently when alone with them as opposed to when out with mutual friends.
So my point is, everything they say they want is opposite to what they want, and what they implicitly don't want is what they actually do want.
Ok, I get that you're bitter, but if this is the what you actually think about women then trust me.....it projects in your personality. I can see a guy like you (and I've met more than a few men of your type) 'testing' women constantly when you speak with them to see if they meet your requirements, or if they'll somehow rise above your ridiculous sterotypes. It doesn't seem that you really like women at all TBH. Why would you want a relationship when you clearly find women shallow, full of drama, and contradictory?
By the way, you are not the first guy to come on here and make these sort of statements about women. All of you that do have the same thing in common: difficulty dealing with the opposite sex. Time to turn off the cyncism and maybe turn the mirror back on yourself. You've clearly got some work to do before you're relationship-ready.
For the record, nice guys always do well in the end. Every nice guy I know is married or partnered with an equally amazing woman. So all those guys that 'claim' to be the classic nice guy getting burned, I like to ask them if they're really as wonderful as they think they are. If they were, they'd have an amazing girl. It really does work like that.
Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mohandas Gandhi