I guess I was sorta seduced. I was talking to a girl with the intention of dating her. First conversation, she says "How about getting a jacuzzi room at the (hotel)?" So, she took the lead on that one. And yes, I'm going. We will not be gambling. *smiley* We'll see how aggressive she is at the hotel.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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