There's a few straight men who like to "cross dress", wear women's lingerie, or get "pegged" with a strap on, or simply try new things. It's not just for gays these days. Although many cross dressers happen to be gay. There is even some underwear on the internet that is lacey, but designed for men. Some men like to just try something new. If it's kinky or taboo, they might try it. That's what men do.
What a man wears has nothing to do with being gay. Even big hairy bikers wearing lots of leather are gay.
I don't think he's gay. But I think he might be bi, and he's certainly open-minded and exploring new happy fun things. lol. Sounds like he's in an exploration phase. I think he will get bored of these things some day. Or not.
So, if he's like this for the rest of his life, will you be ok with that? Or will it put some pressure on your sex life? Will you feel unfulfilled or unhappy?
Last edited by bulrush; 14-12-11 at 03:46 AM.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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