- Give her a compliment once a day. Don't over do it.
- Be nice to her, even if she says something unusual, or has unusual hobbies.
- Listen to her talk, which makes her feel like she is important.
- Encourage her to share personal things, like personal tragedies, personal wins, secret desires. But don't make it a habit. If she starts making it a habit, try to say something like "I don't mind hearing your troubles sometimes, but can we talk about something different now?"
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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