As the title reveals, I'm totaly lost with a girl I spent with a mere 5 days but eventually made on me a huge impact.
I met this girl while I was in South Korea. She is in her late 20's and I'm 5 years younger than her. Well it doesn't matter because she looks even younger than me. The thing is, she was attached to me. That's actually an act unusual of girls unless they are interested in the guy. However, she was following me whenever I go, touching my arms, getting closer to me everytime, complimenting my attitude and looks ect..! I was drawn by her smile and beautiful face). During my stay at her city (which was unfortunately merely 5 days) we were going around everyday and having fun. It was crazy. The last night of my departure back to Seoul, we hugged each other and right after that I tried to kiss her, but she unfortunately pulled right away and didn't let me do it. She said to me if you need anything call me and she left quickly. I felt like an idiot though, I still felt there is more to it somehow.
When i got back to Seoul i sent her an email (apologizing for the blunder, ect..), she didn't response to me. When i was leaving Korea, I called her and she told me happily that she has seen my Email and she said to me 'I love you', and eventually told me will send me back. We talked for like 6 min...! During almost 4 months (She never sent me back an email), unlike me, I was sending her everytime with no response. I called her finally, and she seemed 'again' very happy to hear from me.. I asked her why you didn't send me any email, "she said she didn't check her box"... (It seems like she lies). " She even forgot that she promised me to email me back when i was in Korea)'. Eventually, she said to me I will definitely reply to you by tomorrow..! However, that tomorrow came and there was no reply. Now it's a month since I called her but, ' still no reply'..
I wonder why she acts like that? Does she has been playing with me, or it's a matter of culture, or what?
Do I have to stop calling her and contacting her for good?
I sort of like her, and she seemed to be interested in me more than I was interested in her...but ultimately it turned out that I'm the one that trying not her.
Please, I need your advice, I need help regarding this matter, it has become a pain on the ass. I will appreciate so much your answers guys.
Thank you.