I think this guy likes me, but I don't like him? I mean he's not a bad guy despite the fact that he has bad temper, but I am just not interested. His friends been asking me what's up between me and him and thought we might have something going on. We don't... My friend who knew him since high school told me to avoid him at all cost.
Well I didn't listen. I asked him for a ride couple times to the club since he seem to be willing to drive people around especially girls as my friend told me. I had no choice but to ask him for a ride since my friend wanted to go and she already paid for her halloween event ticket. I asked him if he can get me in for free since I was broke and he said he could and he would be able to come up with a plan since he is the promoter. (My brother is a DJ and the managers and promoters all know me) Anyways, he ended up paying for my ticket which was like $45 or $50 i dont know. His friend won't tell me how much he paid for my ticket... He said he will take care of everything.
Anyways, a few times he asked me to go eat, go to shooting range, and he said he can watch movie with me. I rejected all the offers. Every time I got out with a guy alone, they end up liking me.
he invited me to his thanksgiving dinner with his family since I wasn't really celebrating it with mine, but I rejected and then he invited me to another thanksgiving dinner with his friends and I went since I never been invited to one. To my surprise, it was a high school reunion gathering and I felt awkward. His friends asked me if it seemed weird that he asked me to the thanksgiving dinner. They think he likes me and think I broke his heart. he was sick and still showed up at the club. I think he was trying to give me a surprise and wanted to see me. he tried to protect me from someone that night but then I left him and clung onto my guy friend because it was creeping me out that he is sick and still came out. He was so emo that night...
Last saturday, he was even more emo when I asked his friend (that I have seen and talked to for the past few weeks) to drive me and he asked him to take me home safely in a emo tone... eh... I don't want to be mean, but I have to be cruel. I don't want to tell him I am not interested in him because I heard he gets depressed and emo. I mean for a long time because he gets really attached. What should I do?
I am flattered that he likes me and tries to baby/protect me, but I don't want to hurt him...