I was with my girlfriend for six months at the time these events happened. The first thing she did was, while i was away at schoolies week with my mates, she had her ex boyfriend (of over 20 months) over at her place, watching a movie alone in her room. She did admit this to me, when i got back and asked her what she did while i was away.
The second thing is, at Christmas, she and her family went for a two week vacation, where i was meeting up with them on the second week. During the first week she met this guy who was staying in the unit next door to her family's, and the two family's spent the first week together. My girlfriend and him got to know each other. When i got there, i noticed straight away that they shared something that first week, and were attracted to each other. I even found a letter in my girlfriends bag from him, stating that he liked her, and he would like to know her better, leaving his personal contact details. This alone caused allot of problems during our vacation together.
When we got home, she said she needed some time to think. Over the next few weeks i spoke to her on the phone a few times and tried to get to the bottom of what was going on. She said she still loved me, but was confused. I soon found out from a friend that she had been in contact with the guy she met on vacation, and had been to the movies with him, and another couple (a double date). She told me nothing of this, and i only found out through the other couples brother, who was home when they were picked up by my girlfriend and the guy from vacation, in his Mercedes.
What is your opinion on these events?