I'm going through a similar situation Chris. My bf is going through depression as a result of an accident and pulling away from me. He was the sweetest man I have ever met in my life. We were...and still are, I think, in love. He says he loves me but since his accident 3 months ago, I've gotten 7 emails and that's it. I've tried everything, begged, pleaded, got mad....still the same response. He loves me, he says, but he's still distant. Last Monday I decided that it would be the last time I'd contact him until he starts putting some effort into this. I feel like I'm bothering him. Anyway, I know what you're going through. It's so frustrating and confusing. Maybe just let her have her space...wait for her. I'm waiting and I have no idea how long I'll be able to but I think you just know when it's time to let go for good. I hope neither of us gets to that point. Good luck
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