Me and my bf have been together for 2 years. He is the type of guy who is very independent and has a lot of friends and likes to have fun and cares more about his friends than about me..
When I asked him a couple of weeks ago where are we going to spend NY eve, he said he doesn't know.. I asked him again..the same.. then a few days ago he admited that he doesnt want to spend it with me and that he wants to go somewhere with his friends and be with them and drink and have fun. Last year we spent it together, so I was surprised to hear that.
I told him I wish we would spend it together and that I would like to come too, but he said no, that I should spend it with my friends.
I know he's not cheating because at the party there will be some people I know and he knows that they would tell me if he were with someone else, so I dont think there is another girl. He just wants to drink and have fun without me.. I love him so much and I dont want to break up with him but it's just sad for me to see that he doesnt want me there
Do you think that this is normal? What would you do?
Thanks a lot!