Feeling guilty about ex

[Hookahmike]

My ex is bipolar she ended things with me in october after 3 years of off and on I was done, I met someonr sence then and things are going well, a cv ouple nights ago my ex starts txting me, I ignor it, the next day I get a couple more messeges and I give in and reply, she starts about how she misses me and loves me and she begs me for another chance. I told her no and that if she wanted me in her life it would have to be as a friend. When we were together I swore that if she ever needed me id always be there no mater what. Of course theres still a connection still there I spent 3 years with this girl. Im very conflicted between my promis to the girl I loved and my happiness. Any input would help

[Hookahmike]

I know im not really asking anything here, just any imput

[bcgirl]

You have a new girlfriend now. I would think things through. If you still have romantic feelings for your ex, i would suggest dumping your current girlfriend because no one deserves having a boyfriend or girlfriend who is still emotionally attached to his/her ex. Just remember that if you go back to the ex, things will just end up the same way as it was during the relationship (lots of ups and downs/break-ups and make-ups). Is that a relationship you want to go back to? Many people make the mistake of thinking that this time around will be different....

Your happiness is of utmost importance.

[Hookahmike]

Im not romantivly interested, its just this girl coprised 3 years of my life, what kind of man would I be if that ment nothing to me once it wss over. And honestly i feel sorry for her, shes driven everyone close to her away.

[bcgirl]

you are actually doing her a favour by distancing yourself from her. In the long run she will become a better person for it and one day will be thankful for your actions. If you give a person everything they want, they will never learn how to treat someone properly and with respect. You are teaching her a life lesson that she will hopefully learn from and carry with her throughout her life and with her other relationships.

[Hookahmike]

That actually makes me feel better thanks

[bulrush]

Please, I would not contact your ex. She will likely suck you into her drama again and tempt you. If she is unmedicated, or the medication is not working, she is just bad news all over. Avoid her like the plague, she will only bring pain and suffering in your life. I'm sure she doesn't mean to, but that's the nature of her illness.

There's a reason you two were off and on again. I bet her emotions were all over the place, and she's unmedicated. You need more stability in your life.

[Hookahmike]

Read the post before you give input