Originally Posted by
Harry 1970
She can't fully commit to me, because SHE DOESN'T WANT TO.
But she's got the best of both worlds. And I'm stuck being the other man.
I fixed your post. She has a boyfriend. A BOYFRIEND, not a husband with small children.
If she wanted to leave him for you, she would. She is playing both of you. Having her cake and eating it too. LOL, you are getting played big time. Time for her to grow up and make a choice, b/c she is wasting your time.
If you want her for yourself (not sure why you would, she sounds dishonest tho perhaps she just needs to grow up), then tell her this: Until you leave your BF, I don't want anything to do with this. Its dishonest, its disrespectful to everyone and I don't really want to be with someone who doesn't understand this.
Good luck.
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