I don't think he likes me as much anymore.....

[Birt]

Towards the beginning of the school year last year (I was in 8th grade), this guy moved into my town. As the school year went on, he would constantly pester me by pulling my hair, etc. Some girls I knew told me that they thought he might've liked me. I only liked him as a friend. I would get e-mail from him that said things such as, "(My name) is really really nice!" and so on. During summer vacation, we would call each other several times just about every single day and talk to each other online often. His attitude changed so much that I began to like him a lot. We would hang out quite often and we even made out and did other "things". I didn't want to go out with him because I didn't want to wreck our close friendship. I was practically his only friend that was a girl. As the summer ended, we didn't talk to each other as much and I didn't like him like I did before. Since high school has started, he's gone out with a girl a year older than him. He got dumped not too long ago and wasn't too happy about it. From looking at his online profile, it seems like he's happy being single. I hardly ever see him at school, but when I do, he acts the way he did when we hung out during summer, all flirty and such. When I talk to him online, we don't talk much, but he still calls me "sexy" and "hottie" every once in awhile. I've discovered recently that I like him a lot more than I did over the summer and I'm having many dreams about him. This sounds really gay, but I've even cried over how much I like him. I think he likes another girl. I want to tell him how I feel about him, but I'm afraid that he won't respond to it like he used to. Also, if we were to go out, I'm leary of our relationship turning out the same way his last one did.

[kitkat]

i think you should tell him. what do you have to lose? if you dont tell him, he might think you dont like him. so he may go out w/ other girls. you'll be worse off if you dont talk to him

[hokulele]

I know it's probably just a bad habit and doesn't really mean anything, but it bothered me how u used the term "gay", when I think u meant stupid or lame. I used to have the same bad habit throughout middle school. It might be in your best interest to try and break it, because sepending on where u live, there might be many more gay/bi people in your high school than middle school. I know that's the way it was for me. Plus, you won't be taking the risk of offending anyone.

Now that I've finished with that spiel, I've spent way too much of my life crying over idiot men. I don't recommend it. Tell him how u feel (but not completely, you could scare him off). If he doesn't feel the same way, forget about him. Yes, I know it's hard, but you're really better off without someone who doesn't appreciate you for how special you are. Everyone needs to be appreciated, and no one should be satisfied with anything less.

[Birt]

I'm sorry hokulele, I'll try not to use that term anymore.


There's a girl that I'm friends with and I've told her a lot about this guy I like. I haven't told her much about this situation though. She's seen him before at school, but she doesn't really know him. I made the mistake of giving her his screen name. One day, she decided to go up to him and introduce herself and tell him that she's one of my friends. She's been talking to him on the internet a lot lately. She told me that she likes him a little bit, but not as much as I do. Her and I were gonna hang out last night but I couldn't. She wanted to know his phone number so she could talk to him. Well, I made another mistake by giving it to her and later on that night when I talked to her, she told me that she went to the mall with him. She has no clue how much I'm pissed off at her. She doesn't even know him and the only reason she went with him was because she needed a ride there. She uses people quite often to get what she wants. Just recently, I talked to my crush online and he wanted to know if my friend liked him. I told him that she kind of likes him. I asked him if he liked her, but he never replied. It really pisses me off that my friend would do that. My crush doesn't even have a clue that he was used. As far as telling him how I really feel about him.....I don't know how to go about doing that.....

[hokulele]

Well, any person who does something like that to their "friend" is no friend at all. If she's gonna play dirty like that, then u should tell the guy how your "friend" used him just for a ride, and how she uses people all the time.

[Birt]

[COLOR=royal blue]This is an interesting online conversation I had with my crush yesterday:[/COLOR]

Me: hey sexy
Him: yo
Me: i love you
Him: what???
Me: it's true
Him: What???
Him: why???
Me: let's just say that i think about you a lot and it makes me really horny
Him: ok
Him: im scared
Me: why are you scared?
Him: its so all of a sudden!
Me: well....i've felt this way for awhile....but i didn't know how to say it
Him: ok
Me: but seriously....i've thought about you a lot and i've been having dreams about you
Him: thats nice
Me: so.....who are you liking these days
Him: a few girls
Him: mostly sophmores
Me: oooo
Me: ic
Him: yeah
Me: so are you liking any freshmen?
Him: some
Him: but im not going to name any
Me: ok
Me: does one of them happen to be me?
Him: no names!!!
Me: ok then
Me: i g2g, lyl
Him: bye
Him: c ya later

[COLOR=royal blue]What could this mean?[/COLOR]