Is this a date?

**Mark1** · 02-01-12, 02:00 PM

-So I met a girl from HS at the grocery store

-Both of us are back home for a bit

-Didn't get her number then

-Friended her on fB

-Started chatting

-Gave her my number. I said, "I'd like to take you out sometime before you go back to school for the spring"

-She texts me

-We set something up. I say, "BTW, this is a date"

-"Aww you mean I can't wear sweatpants? "

"Nope. See you then pretty lady"

-" Haha okay! Sounds good, have a good night!"

The reason I ask is because we were just friends in HS. What changed since that now she is okay with going on a date?

**MaidenMinx** · 02-01-12, 02:04 PM

What does it matter? You've got a date with her now.

**Boisdevie** · 02-01-12, 02:48 PM

Stop overthinking it. Just go with the flow.

**bcgirl** · 03-01-12, 12:40 AM

well you did mention the word "date". I remember when i was in HS and this guy asked me to hang out. I viewed him as totally a friend. I agreed to hang out (not thinking anything more out of it). I went to get changed (nothing special) t-shirt, sweatpants, no make-up and didn't shave my legs..... I was surprised he wanted more than friends and he meant it to be a "date". If i knew what he meant then, I would have said NO.

**vashti** · 03-01-12, 12:42 AM

Originally Posted by Mark1

What changed since that now she is okay with going on a date?

Dude, it's just a date. She didn't agree to marry you. Don't over-think this.

**smackie9** · 03-01-12, 01:17 AM

Ya I agree.......she is just giving you a shot at this. That is what dating is all about...you talk over dinner, you see if you have things in common, and if there is any chemistry. If not then there is no second date...oh well at least you tried.

Don't get your expectations so high....it's only a frickin date.

**HeartIsAching** · 03-01-12, 01:59 AM

Yes, it's a date. No, it's nothing more than that. See what happens.

Communicate.

**Mark1** · 03-01-12, 02:51 AM

I just don't want her to freak out when I go to kiss her at the end.

**HeartIsAching** · 03-01-12, 03:25 AM

I wouldn't do that unless you're absolutely sure it's ok.

**bulrush** · 03-01-12, 04:10 AM

Mark1,
This is how I see it. If you are on a first date, and you kiss her lightly on the lips, and she freaks out, then you know she is not the one for you. Surely you don't want to date someone who is so fragile, do you? You don't have to play tongue hockey, but a kiss on the lips means it's a date.

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