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Thread: tryin to get my co-worker in bed, from scratch!

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    tryin to get my co-worker in bed, from scratch!

    okay i actually kind of like her just so i dont come off bad...

    I've been working at a small business since may and im a dishwasher (supervisor of 2 others) and in september or october we got a new cashier and shes the same age as me (she turns 18 in march and i turned 18 in august), and as stupid as this sounds when i first saw her she was running outside then i walked in that room and we kept eye contact until someone from outside walked in and closed the door behind them. strangely i felt a little nervous then.

    that same day she later came to my cleaning station and introduced herself and started talking...and talking. i didnt know what to say? sadly i was slightly nervous so i stuttered SLIGHTLY and gave some vauge responses.

    we talk sometimes whenever were with each other and shes extremly social (unlike me, but i still know everyone since theres not too many people). sometimes when were on break at the same time we'll talk.

    we texted once but she didnt really respond. but i just want to ask her out just to see because shes nice and atractive but i never had a real relationship and she seems more experienced than me. and i dont know how many guys flirt with her so i dont want to make anything awkward. should i just ask her when were alone if she wants to hang/see a movie because i dont really like going out as much as i used to.

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    going out as much as you used to? you're 18, the best going out years are still to come.

    Just ask her out, nothing fancy, coffee or dinner.

    EDIT** Please spell your state right, it'll make you look less like a hillbilly living in some hillbilly shack somewhere.
    "All is fair in love and war." - Francis Edward Smedley

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    Get to know her for a week or so, then ask her out. Nothing too fancy, you don't want to overdo it on the first date. If she says "no" then she wasn't interested.
    I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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    shit I spelled my state wrong! at least I'm next to Indiana, less hillbilly xD

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