I guess it's all about your preferences. I've been to Maui once, it was beautiful, but the price for me is just not worth it to go again. I'm upside down on my mortgage, as are many Americans (due to banker hijinks), so I would prefer to spend money on reducing debt or acquiring appreciable assets.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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