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14-01-12, 09:52 AM #1
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Should females wait for males to make things official or should she bring it up?
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14-01-12, 10:01 AM #2
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Isnt usually the girl who brings all that up first?
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14-01-12, 10:09 AM #3
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I would think if he wants to make me his girl, he would do it right?
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14-01-12, 10:54 AM #4
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Not unless he's nervous. You should bring it up if he doesnt.
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14-01-12, 08:37 PM #5
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Whoever wants it more brings it up first.
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15-01-12, 03:14 AM #6
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I never had to ask or even say anything about it......it just happens.
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15-01-12, 03:29 AM #7
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This day and age I'd never assume that it's a done deal. Op: If you are smart, at the very least you will ask that the two of you be exclusive. If it's been a while and he's not brought it up yet then perhaps you should do the deed. If you're having sex then definately do it soon.
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16-01-12, 09:58 PM #8
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Ditto.
Originally Posted by dem862
My message was too short.I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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24-01-12, 02:46 AM #9
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I ditto your ditto. Personally I think people shouldn't just assume that because a guy's a guy that he should be the one to ask the question. That sounds a bit sexist in my opinion. Whoever want it more should be the one to ask. So to all my fellow guys out there... Don't feel like since you're a guy that you should automaticly get to be the one to pop the question... girls should get their chance too. And to the girls... you have the right to ask out a guy if you're interested in him... so go get him.
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24-01-12, 02:48 AM #10
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Correct. You're just asking for trouble if you don't do this. Originally Posted by Wakeup
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24-01-12, 03:11 AM #11
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Then again, if you want to make him your guy, you would do it, right? Originally Posted by Lillypond
Who approaches whom is kind of silly. If you want the relationship to be exclusive, just say so! I swear that so many of us turn the positively simple into the complicated!!
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24-01-12, 08:31 AM #12
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Does he introduce you to everyone as his GF? then it is official.
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24-01-12, 09:51 AM #13
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"Official"...you mean like "your'e going steady" or what? I think probably the guy should have the balls to say something.
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24-01-12, 11:12 AM #14
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Originally Posted by carl1222
The 'Two C's' have it! Originally Posted by CAM
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
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24-01-12, 09:37 PM #15
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I'd argue that two Cs are perfect. Originally Posted by IndiReloaded
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