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    Ladies: What type of sex gives you a better orgasm?

    Do you prefer that a man takes it slow? Or do you like it hard and fast? Obviously, when you are about to have an orgasm, fast might be better. But in general, do you like the majority of sex to be slow or fast?

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    Good oral..............

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    Unfortunately I don't orgasm during sex. As for fast or slow, it totally depends on the mood. Mainly fast but sometimes it's nice to go slow. It's nice to vary it actually, from fast to slow back to fast again.

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    Gotta agree with smackie9 on this one. Either oral or using fingers on my clit. As for the speed of intercourse -- I like to start slow then build up to a hard, fast banging.
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    Well, looks like a consensus. Most of my girlfriends liked to start slow, then end up getting pounded hard too.
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    I'm guessing "Sex that last's longer than 3-5 minutes" is the first and best answer After that, you can worry about technique.

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    A gradual build up is good. A gentle deep & slow thrust then gradually increasing the speed and going shallower as he does so is my ideal.

    Foreplay should ALWAYS be a must too esp. if lustful banter is thrown in...it helps.

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    I don't orgasm by plain intercourse. Key is good, long oral

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    Interesting. My gf likes oral, too. I can't quite understand what she gets out of it, but apparently there's something to it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by katty151 View Post
    A gradual build up is good. A gentle deep & slow thrust then gradually increasing the speed and going shallower as he does so is my ideal.

    Foreplay should ALWAYS be a must too esp. if lustful banter is thrown in...it helps.
    Interesting--so shallow rather than deep thrusts, huh? I'm taking notes here.

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    (shallow thrusts) The sensitive area is only about an inch and a half in that's why.

    As for oral, most of the nerve endings are on the outside of the vagina.....that's why oral is an important part of foreplay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by smackie9 View Post
    (shallow thrusts) The sensitive area is only about an inch and a half in that's why.

    As for oral, most of the nerve endings are on the outside of the vagina.....that's why oral is an important part of foreplay.
    Ah, that kind of oral. I understand that. It seemed that the OP was talking about her giving oral to him. My misread.

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    Understandable, men are always thinking about their penis lol.

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    Ah, that kind of oral. I understand that. It seemed that the OP was talking about her giving oral to him. My misread.
    lol that could have been disasterous..."hey hunny, i wanna give you the best orgasm you've ever had....now come over here and gimme a bj"

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