In general, if a man consistently tells you he loves you, shows you he does and that he cares, yet at times will mutter pretty mean[not too harsh] comments that are meant to be "funny," this means.....
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17-01-12, 09:48 AM #1
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Contradictions..
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17-01-12, 11:10 AM #2
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It just means he is trying to make you laugh.
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17-01-12, 11:20 AM #3
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It means he's not very funny.
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17-01-12, 11:42 AM #4
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He actually is a very amusing person, I just don't entirely appreciate comments about how "small" my chest is, or being called "bitch."
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17-01-12, 11:57 AM #5
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Being amusing and being funny is two different thing.
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18-01-12, 02:25 AM #6
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At first I was going to say that's just his dark sense of humor, till I read some more. Referring to your chest, or you as a "b*tch" is very disrespectful. He should know that most women are insecure about their chests.
Personally, I much prefer small breasts.I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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18-01-12, 06:39 AM #7
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this means.... you need to tell him you felt hurt because of what he said and would he please not say that again. He is insensitive, but this is easily correctible.
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18-01-12, 10:18 AM #8
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He was trying to tease you, but was being an idiot about it.
I watched my friend and co-worker call this girl he likes stupid, in a dead serious voice, straight to her face, because she made a small mistake. He thought she would think it was funny. I thought she was going to cry.
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18-01-12, 10:22 AM #9
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try to make a "joke" about how "small" his penis is next time. We'll see what kinda reaction he gets from that. It ought to shut him up the next time he brings up how small your boobies are.
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21-01-12, 10:08 AM #10
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I went through the same thing with my guy. He would talk abusively to me in front of people with what he thought was humor, but those people pulled me aside with much concern and asked me if he really was seriously abusing me. I did complain about it to him before, but when I told him about everyone's reaction (proving my point) it finally shut him down and he hasn't done it since. If you don't like it, put your foot down harshly to make your point and keep reminding him when he does it again......he will learn.
