My boyfriend and I went out for about 10 months when he broke up with me. We didn't talk for 2 months and then started talking again and are now working on our relationship.
He started a new job and wants to make sure that works out, so we are taking things slow. But he always says things or does things that really confuse me. He bought us his and hers watches for christmas and comments about the summer what we'll do and things like that, but then I don't see him for 2 weeks at a time. I'm not worried about him cheating at all, that is not a concern of mine. He does come over when the kids are here and they love him dearly. He prefers coming when they're not here.
I don't want to push because I know his job is still new and worried him, and I know that when you usually push a person too much, that usually pushes them in the opposite direction.
I love him with all my heart and I know he cares for me, sometimes I just don't know what he's thinking and I wish I knew. We do talk on a daily basis.
I'm just confused and really not sure what I'm asking. What should I do? How long do I wait?