[QUOTE=Wakeup;794135]It would be nice if you grew up and actually contributed something of value once in a while to someone other than your "crew", misombra. That's the jist of that comment you quoted. I'm happily married I don't solicit that kind of thing from other men (if you'll notice, I didn't even comment on his comment).
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It be nice if you did the same.
Wakeup: you are still a newbie here. Miso (like me, btw) has been posting here since ~ 2004. She has given far more useful advice than you know. You stuck your e-nose in on a response that wasn't actually for you. I doubt your marriage is all that great--if I were your husband I'd probably run every time you mention "co-dependency". You are a one-track recording and an irritating one at that.
Your presence here is tolerated b/c you seem to relate to a certain class of posters (redneck ones). There are just as many that find you very irritating. I think I mentioned this before. Stick to what you are good at, enjoy the forum and otherwise avoid telling the regs what to do. It won't go well for you.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh