I have been seeing this guy for a few weeks (one or two dates a week for about four weeks). He's funny, smart, talented, and a giant goofball. I always have fun with him and he's a real giver in the bedroom (though I always reciprocate much to his appreciation). He's not very touchy feely in public, which I'm kind of a fan of like hand holding and arms around each other, but when we're at home he's a bit more like that. We have great conversations and it seems we are both enjoying getting to know each other and learning new things.
There was a brief period where it seemed like he wasn't that into me and I thought he had lost interest (I'm kind of an insecure person when it comes to dating and try not to get ahead of myself to no avail). During this period I was asked out by guy number 2. We've been friends for quite a number of months and it's obvious we've always had a connection. He's sweet, cheesy, goofy, adventurous, and loves to go out and have fun. We went out on a date and had an amazing time just sitting, eating, and getting to know each other. He talks to me every day, unlike guy number 1, and is a bit better about the slight PDA.
So I've been kind of juggling these two guys (neither are exclusive with me or have even come close to having that conversation) and I know at some point I may have to come to the decision of which guy I want to be with. I'm overwhelmed with having to think about it because I want to make sure I don't make a mistake. Something may happen where I don't even have to decide but I'm kind of preparing myself to have to just in case.
My question is: how do I even go about making a decision like this? Both guys bring different things to the table and I'm always happy when I'm with or talking to either of them. Should I get the ball rolling with asking guy number 1 who I've seen longer where he sees us going? I've only been out with guy number 2 once but definitely am looking forward to spending more time with him.
Any advice will be much appreciated. I know I can't keep dating both of them so I'm gonna have to choose.