I think "serious talk" is what ruins relationships

[Skitzo]

When a girl is on a temper tantrum, and is living her bad mood on you....this is when relationships usually end because girls are emo.
Anyway I think I know how to handle this, never get into serious talk and try to comfort her, she won't listen anyway... Just leaving is also not a good idea because then you both leave with a bad mood, but I think I have cracket it.
Instead try to fix it with humour and romance, get your game on, you gotta be at your best then... like its the first date, soon you will forget about the bad mood and she will understand not to be in a bad mood with you again

[Mathias]

When a girl is on a temper tantrum, and is living her bad mood on you....this is when relationships usually end because girls are emo.
Anyway I think I know how to handle this, never get into serious talk and try to comfort her, she won't listen anyway... Just leaving is also not a good idea because then you both leave with a bad mood, but I think I have cracket it.
Instead try to fix it with humour and romance, get your game on, you gotta be at your best then... like its the first date, soon you will forget about the bad mood and she will understand not to be in a bad mood with you again

I think you have a point. Kind of.

The interesting point you raise is how women react differently in escalated situations. Because you react differently, it's not the best time to try talking through it. Get through the situation.

However, you should definitely talk about it at some point. Somebody's feelings were hurt, and you can't have the same thing happen twice. Figure it out, but not while emotions are high.

[searock]

I'm a woman, and I agree with both of you.

[MaidenMinx]

If I'm genuinely pissed off at something and someone tries to make light of it and turn out into a joke, that just posses me off more. Personally, I prefer people to leave me alone until I wear my anger out, then I'm happy to talk out through and make jokes.

[searock]

Yeah obviously it doesn't work if I'm really pissed off either. I interpreted it more like when I'm in a crappy mood (sad).

[IndiReloaded]

The thread title and the first post don't seem to be connected.

[vashti]

The thread title and the first post don't seem to be connected.

I agree. Also, about the thread title: The man I sort of date off and on hates talking about anything serious (except the freaking Republican debates). I consider him half-retarded some days.


Okay, I lied. I consider him half retarded MOST days.

[KingZ]

If one doesn't work, use two.

[smackie9]

I think it's a given not to talk things through during a emotional or heated moment. Walk away from each other and cool off. If it does need to be addressed then ya talk about it if it's going to reoccur. Most of the time there is no need, and it was just a release........have sex afterwards or a few beers.