Over the past month or so I've been seeing this guy, well seeing isn't really the word, we met in a night club and have had sex a couple of times since then. The issue isn't that he isn't asking me out on a date, it is more like the way in which he is acting which is confusing me. On one hand, he doesn't really text first, but once I do, he is keen to get together and always says how amazing I am and so forth once we do get together. On the other hand, the other night he started talking about how all women want the same thing and how he is quite certain that after we've had sex surely I would want him to stay rather than leave right away etc. Since I didn't really expect anything from him I said that he doesn't know me and that he doesn't know what I want and that he can leave whenever he wants. He stayed for a few hours after we had been intimate but when he was about to leave he stressed on it several times, then went to the door, came back to kiss me, then once again said 'well I am going now ' and once again stopped at the door almost as if he wanted me to ask him to stay or something, I didn't.
I find all that really confusing, surely if he wanted something more he would ask me out? He would text first and his messages would be slightly more personal? So what was all that about? In the beginning he did share with me that he broke up with someone a few months ago and that things are still a little fragile so I assumed sex is all he was after?
I haven't had much casual sex, as I have mostly been in relationships, so what is everyone's opinion on sex buddies, and do any of you have experiences and advice you'd like to share?