Get on meds. Or move to a new city. I didn't want to date much in high school, so I feel for you. It can be very frustrating. Also, try enjoy being alone, while you look for a mate. It will make things much easier. Try Meetup.com to find platonic friends with the same interests. It will help you get buy. At least you can laugh with them.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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