My wife has a bad problem of being to nice in the inner city and trust me, that can get you killed! Her job is a mile from the house and she prefer catching the bus, so she see's a few of the same people in passing on the bus! The city eliminated that route at the time she usually catch the bus, so we walked to another route up the street and this guy catches the same bus she caught previously, so we approached the stop, she seen the familiar face, she gave him a happy president wave and started talking about the bus new schedule with the guy like they were old friends and I'm standing there looking disheveled and she finally say, whats the matter, I didn't say nothing, but call me when you get to work!
The next night, the buster is there again and the bus was running late and she had to get to work, she said give me five dollars and she flagged a cab as she was getting in the cab, she ask the guy you want to ride with me, a f'ing complete stranger, I WAS SHOCKED! IT CAUGHT ME BY SURPRISED! The guy was supposed to decline(MAN CODE) but he was surprised his self that she ask! So she called me and said you're mad aint you, she was actually getting mad at me because I said she got in a cab with a complete stranger! she thinks the guy was safe because he rides the bus too and get off at the same stop! i TOLD HER, YOU STILL DON'T KNOW THIS GUY, HE'S A STRANGER, I am stilled floored, we talked tonight and she still didn't see nothing wrong! I will be having a conversation with this guy tomorrow and tell him from one man to another about the man code and the complications that come with it for not obeying it. WHAT SHOULD I SAY OR DO?