Sorry for the long post, just got to get this off my chest..
She goes into this one chatroom that most of her friends use too. The problem lies with the male friends, they can just say that "i had a dream about u last night.. u were giving me a GREAT HANDJOB!" or "Well, looks it's ****** again, the one we all would like to ****!". When meeting them live and i'm not present, they talk the same, try to touch her. I've talked with her about this, saying that it don't feel good, would you want other women talk to me like that almost daily?
Her answer:"They just are like that, can't help it". It's really eating me up inside, i know she wouldn't do anything sexual but she's got this "posing" attitude a bit, she tries to look wilder than she really is, and that of course in turn, attracts idiot guys. We have had a few fights about this, her older friend has also told me about this kind of behaviour. I had o fight with one of her male friends. He was touching her breasts again, when i heard it i wanted to call this relationship off because it wasn't the first time, she started crying and promised she wouldn't be alone with him anymore, the guy got mad as hell, calling me a f*cking idiot, complete waste of human life who blames others for his meaningless life. That's the type of guys the chatroom is full of, and she seems them live because they are pretty much her only friends.
I've tried to invite her spend the evening with my friends, other girls that i know, other couples. More respectful people. I don't have a problem her seeing a male friend without me, if i know he is a decent guy. I want to be with her, she's fun to hang around with, nice to talk to about everything, capable of compromises (unlike my ex). But this is just feeling bad, i don't want guys telling my gf almost daily how they would like to have sex with her, how they had wet dreams about her, how they would pay her booze if she came with them and left me home.
I sometimes feel so angry towards men, i wouldn't ever try a dating girl. I respect relationships. I've had two of my four relationships ending in cheating, so i may be a little overacting on this, but then again something inside says that i'm not, and that's just wrong?