Hi!
Now I know that seems like a pretty stupid question, but there are things that make me believe maybe it wouldn't be too hard:
so I have a pretty big crush on this guy in my class, who I'm also good friends with but I don't really hang out with him outside of school, except at parties sometimes - we sit together at school a lot though. Unfortunately, it's pretty hard to see him a lot because he has an incredible amount of friends (almost all female for some reason).
Now I know he likes me - as a friend, that is. That part isn't too hard to figure out.
About a week ago a friend of mine talked to him, and he told her he found me beautiful. So I was pretty confident.
Then, he asked me to go to my school's prom as his date on saturday evening - I was sure he liked me. We ended up meeting up with a few other people as well, but when he arrived he told me I looked gorgeous (he didn't say this to any of the other girls). However, on the way to prom he didn't really talk to me at all, and mostly hung out with other people. When we got there, I was sort of hitting on him, as in trying to dance with him a lot and flirt etc. I should also probably mention that both of us were pretty drunk by this time. In the end, surely because of the alcohol I got sick of just waiting for him to make a move so I took him apart and asked if he'd noticed I was hitting on him (yes, I was very not subtle). And then...well he said he had noticed but just wasn't interested in me that way. He said he adored me, but only as a friend, and that he was aware maybe he had been sending mixed signals but the only reason he'd told me I was beautiful was because 'you're objectively beautiful, but I don't have feelings for you'. So that was disappointment number one. And then, I asked him if he'd even be opposed to a one time thing with me...yes, I did. As I said, I was very drunk. And very attracted to him. And recovering from being dumped from a 2 year relationship and therefore in need of male attention. Thank goodness he didn't make a big deal out of it, he just said he was a virgin and therefore wanted his first time to be with someone special, which is a perfectly normal reason I think. Anyway the next day I texted him apologizing for my behavior and he said it was fine and there wouldn't be any awkwardness between us or anything, we could just be friends like before. So my point is: I really would like to be more than friends with him! Considering he likes me a lot and finds me physically attractive, I feel like there could be a chance of something more happening. Guys, in your experience what has made you fall for a girl? How can I try to make him like me?
(oh and I'm 200% sure he's single)